I Refuse To Give Up!!! So Should You….
Posted on April 11, 2010Stick to the fight when you are hardest hit
I had read these lines somewhere, and now they seem to have become very important for me. Every time i think of giving up on something or some one, i recall these lines. Few years back i was someone completely different. I was someone who was sure that life is full surprises but now, i know life is full of shocks. In those beautiful early stages of my life i was sure that no matter what happens,life is about good things, good people and true feelings. But now at a stage when girls start experiencing their first love I , have unfortunately realized there is nothing true and honest about these feeling. Everything is temperory and leaves you ones it’s purpose is solved. People come into your lives, make you happy, then go away when some one else grabs their attention. and they leave. Irrespective of the fact that you still need them or not. Selfishness knows how to make it’s presence clear in your life. So, people keep telling me, world is bad, don’t trust anyone. But, I refuse to give in to such negativity. Yes, i am hurt right now, yes, i also have someone who has hurt me. But, i will never hate him. I will never think he is a bad guy. If i am shattered that is because I am weak, not because some XYZ came in my life played with my feelings and left me. The entire world goes through it and I am no different.But, it is upon me how to take the blow. Either i can cry, abuse and blame him for exploiting me mentally and physically or I can have a compassionate heart and thank him that he gave me a beautiful time. He taught what does the world ‘UNCONDITIONAL LOVE ‘ is. I can easily get away by gaining sympathy and throwing him out of my life. That is how every girl does it. But, i refuse to let my weakness overpower me. I am a person who know how bad,mean and cruel this world is.But, i refuse to let this negativity take over me. In the end I have to suffer because of him. But i prefer to suffer with a smile on my face. I am dumb enough to trust every person i meet and get hurt but, I am strong enough to stand up after blow and spread the strength of never giving up and believing that every soul is pure.I will not get infected by others who have suffered and allowed themselves to change.I will stop the cycle when it comes to me. So that i don’t spread it further.
The Game Is not over
Coz i hav’nt won yet