WTF!! Mind Your Own Business!!!
Posted on April 27, 2010Life cannot be more strange for me. Every time I decide to ‘move on’ The Almighty gives me a spanking on my butt and tells me to ’shut up and sit down’.That is what I do. The theme of the day is without a doubt ‘SAD’.But I know that being sad for too long makes me go mad.Wow! SAD and
This Should Be Done To People who Bug
MAD. It is technically impossible to explain myself right now.But i guess that is what I am doing. I had an argument with someone today.He finds it ‘cheap’ to write about your feelings on a social portal. I would have agreed to him if I would have not been writing here. I hate being bossed around. I hate being told that because I am a girl and I am living in a society where drinking and smoking is ’suppose ‘ to be bad. All I say to such people is please FUCK OFF! Such people are not there for me.They are the bodyguards of the society. I understand if you tell me that alcohol is not good for health. I respect your opinion(Again, I am not promising to do what you think is correct) as here, you are concerned about my health.
But what is the big damn deal about being a women? I mean you can drink and die like a rotten piece on earth if you are a man. Just because you are a man, you can have alcohol,smoke,have sex with various women,lose virginity at 16, BUT, not if you are a women. Give me the rationality behind this thought.
Okay if you say that this is our tradition. We should follow it. Okay. Agreed. But then, my dear..Our culture and tradition talks about respecting women. Why are rape cases so high in our country? Oh wait, here as well you blame the women. Just because her neck was visible, or she was wearing smart clothes you go and rape her. Wow!!!
You tell me not to drink? You are telling me not to smoke because I am a women! Then take off that branded shirt that is imported from US . Start wearing Khadi. Stop using sex enhancing stuff. Go and read kamasutra. Dare you sit in that car!!! It is an imported one. Don’t you listen to English music. Do you even know what our classical dance and heritage is about? I don’t. So I am not claiming to be all traditional.
I have never really given a fuck to people who tell me what to do, except my family and HIM. Only two entities who have the sole right to tell me what to do. Now that HE is no longer there, don’t dare to tell ME what to do if you are not in my family photo. Okay? I’ll just end here. I might never stop.Sad day but, the frustration is out.Thanx
Btw I made new Friends on facebook. Interesting ones.. 
MMuuaaahhhh
Love you(missing HIM)
My buddies Rock!!!!!!!!!
Posted on April 16, 2010Oh,I am in such a sentimental mood today.Had thought of sharing something else but, met a very close friend in the evening so….(sigh!) I kind of changed my plan(sorry boss!).FRIENDSHIP..Today’s thoughts are dedicated to my childhood friend.I so love her (sniff) In a straight way of course!I kind of blurted out my ongoing struggle in my luckless love life to her.You don’t have to think much.That is the best part about being with your friends.Friends are so important in life and I have luckily been blessed by good friends.
Friendship is one of those relations for me that do not need the ‘extra effort thing’. I mean..you just click with the other person and start enjoying their company.We girls have a tendency to bitch about almost any other thing that we dislike.Even if we are in the market and a sexy gal passes by,we HAVE TO comment.That poor girl might have not even given us a bad look,but we hate her.How dare she look so sexy.Sounds insane?I know.We love it.I am not much of a fashion diva myself and I always get a good lecture on how clumsily i dress up.I give the same old excuse,”This is me and i am comfortable in this”.The reaction that comes from my friends is somewhere between,’disgust’ and ‘there is no point in telling her’ kind of. But then, I love them for what they are and they won’t leave me just because I make stupid sounds when I munch something loudly.My parents get pissed off so frequently when i have my guys coming over to my place.
If we see the ratio of male friend to that of female ones,its kind of uneven.Around 5:10. 5 gals to 10 guys.I am just so comfortable with guys, but it does not make me any less to my girlfriends.I think i would have led a miserable life if i wouldn’t have socialized in my teens and got these bunch of idiots.But there is something that i feel.Relations like these give birth to feelings like betrayal and distrust.I think so because only such strong bonds hurt you till the depth of your soul and make you believe in negativity.However, there is nothing more beautiful than having friends to laugh at you when you you are depressed at dumb things and listen to you with utmost interest your first sexual encounter(and we girls want to know bloody every single detail..Trust me!)So, If you are fighting with your best friend.Go right ahead!These dumpsters deserve to be hanged for making you believe that no matter what we will be there.Even if you are a disaster!!
Today when I finished telling my story of how badly I am pits of emotional hell…All she did was to just get up and hug me and say,”babes you are hopeless” and I smiled and said,”don’t worry I’ll bounce back soon”.:-)
Welcome To The Musings Of Nobody Commenting On Everybody
Posted on April 11, 2010HEY GUYS,
Before you move on to the next page, I want you people to know something about me. I am someone who is constantly thinking something or the other in the entire day. I live in a metro city and hence, lead a very complicated life. I know all of you are dealing with your bit of struggles, experiences, and drama. So am I. So, here I am sharing my side of the story. There is no moral here. I am not passing on anything.These are my thoughts and this is the way I have dealt with my situations. I am also gonna share stuff that is not suppose to be done morally! But then again, I am not here to teach morals. You think i acted like a bitch at some particular day? Spit it out here…I am not here to gain a fan following. I am just here to talk about my own rules and I know how to defend them without causing much pain to anyone. Come out of it people…come out of those conventional ways of living your lives. We all know how to take revenge, how to fight and how to insult. Let’s try to create a cause. I am trying to do that everyday. TO BREAK THE CODE….
Although the guy who has given me this platform to share my frustration is a fairly cute and interesting guy claiming to be my ‘ALMOST FRIEND’ , I’m nevertheless not allowed to reveal anything further about my self. That’s for you people to do.
And ya…Thanx for giving me a visit…MMuuaaahhhhhhhhh!!!!
