Are You Being Fake?…
Posted on May 25, 2010How would you react if some one you know from good 10 years changes drastically all of a sudden?
I know some one who has been very close to me, has been a decent friend and we bump into each other quite often. Simple, sober person. Not an introvert but not too loud as well. That is the way I have known her. But, suddenly I don’t know how and what happened she decided to change her self. She is not the same any more. And I fail to understand the reason. Someone who is beautiful and sweet. Someone who is appreciated for whatever she is suddenly turns into a ‘hep’ ‘gal’ who addresses all friends as ‘babes’ is strange.
Are You Being Fake?
I mean for people who meet her now she might be like that but, for us her childhood friends it’s not good. Alcohol, smoking is not the point. The point is ‘faking’. For what? To be cool? I don’t think that by especially adapting this lifestyle that you are not can make you look cool.
Attitude is something that comes from within not that you adapt from the society. Being a fashion diva is good but, a fashion diva who does not understand herself is weird. We talked to her about this today to an extend that we asked her why she is turning into a wannabe?
A person who intentionally changes himself/herself to feel cool and hot and sexy is not doing justice with ones own self. Thinking too much of yourself is not good but neither is underestimating the beauty God has given you. I think that is what she is doing.
Turning into a wannabe. Attitude is good but to your own friends hurts them alot. Don’t do that to yourself sweetheart you’ll ruin the beauty of innocence.
Cute Men Beware….
Posted on May 11, 2010Friends are the most strange and embarrassing elements in your life. Fortunately I have been blessed by two of them. Seher and Aaahna. Both of them are single piece entities and I will do anything for the person who gets me some one like them. It’s an open challenge. Of the two Seher is the one who is the health guru in my life. However, both of them seem to be on a mission. Mission embarrass Natasha. Today we went to the local market area. We saw a guy who had proposed me 4yrs back and was tones and kilos heavier than I had seen any guy. Obviously I had denied then. But Now!!!! ooHhHHH…He has become so hot!!! So when we saw him all three of us had the same thought in might…I should have said yes to him.With Seher’s pearls of wisdom…She quoted,” what is gone, is gone, I should have acted smartly earlier”.
From the left....Seher,me and Aahna
Anyways we went to the most happening place in our locality and the first thing Seher said was,” chalo ladke dekho!” Its a record. Together we three spare no cute guy. A any guy who is cute and is anywhere around us..is gone. If there would have been a law (or we would have been aware of) about girls teasing men , the three of us would have by now become known local badmaash…We do that..Today while we were standing outside a shop two guys came on a bike. Both cute enough..I saw them first and then my dear Seher almost standing right opposite to one of the guys shouted,” Natasha, look look..cute na? Looks just like what you want specks, white shirt blue jeans” and I was embarrassed to the core and I said,” Ya I saw him”..
“lets get you a guy Natasha” and I am so bloody sure that the guy had definitely heard what she was literally shouting….
This was just part of our almost daily habit. Nothing new. We even criticize girls on their faces if we do not approve of their dressing sense( Seher and Aahna are strict fashion police kinds) Not really caring about the sensitivity of a guy…Not even caring that he might be a simple guy from a decent background. We are so used to this. Teasing guys on the road. And now I have my doubt if they might switch over to the next mission. Mission getting Natasha hooked up with some one. They can do this. Trust me when I say that when we three are together any bloody thing can happen. Beware guys please pray that you do not come across us. We are no good girls..and we do not promise to be good 
My buddies Rock!!!!!!!!!
Posted on April 16, 2010Oh,I am in such a sentimental mood today.Had thought of sharing something else but, met a very close friend in the evening so….(sigh!) I kind of changed my plan(sorry boss!).FRIENDSHIP..Today’s thoughts are dedicated to my childhood friend.I so love her (sniff) In a straight way of course!I kind of blurted out my ongoing struggle in my luckless love life to her.You don’t have to think much.That is the best part about being with your friends.Friends are so important in life and I have luckily been blessed by good friends.
Friendship is one of those relations for me that do not need the ‘extra effort thing’. I mean..you just click with the other person and start enjoying their company.We girls have a tendency to bitch about almost any other thing that we dislike.Even if we are in the market and a sexy gal passes by,we HAVE TO comment.That poor girl might have not even given us a bad look,but we hate her.How dare she look so sexy.Sounds insane?I know.We love it.I am not much of a fashion diva myself and I always get a good lecture on how clumsily i dress up.I give the same old excuse,”This is me and i am comfortable in this”.The reaction that comes from my friends is somewhere between,’disgust’ and ‘there is no point in telling her’ kind of. But then, I love them for what they are and they won’t leave me just because I make stupid sounds when I munch something loudly.My parents get pissed off so frequently when i have my guys coming over to my place.
If we see the ratio of male friend to that of female ones,its kind of uneven.Around 5:10. 5 gals to 10 guys.I am just so comfortable with guys, but it does not make me any less to my girlfriends.I think i would have led a miserable life if i wouldn’t have socialized in my teens and got these bunch of idiots.But there is something that i feel.Relations like these give birth to feelings like betrayal and distrust.I think so because only such strong bonds hurt you till the depth of your soul and make you believe in negativity.However, there is nothing more beautiful than having friends to laugh at you when you you are depressed at dumb things and listen to you with utmost interest your first sexual encounter(and we girls want to know bloody every single detail..Trust me!)So, If you are fighting with your best friend.Go right ahead!These dumpsters deserve to be hanged for making you believe that no matter what we will be there.Even if you are a disaster!!
Today when I finished telling my story of how badly I am pits of emotional hell…All she did was to just get up and hug me and say,”babes you are hopeless” and I smiled and said,”don’t worry I’ll bounce back soon”.:-)
