How would you react if some one you know from good 10 years changes drastically all of a sudden?

I know some one who has been very close to me, has been a decent friend and we bump into each other quite often. Simple, sober person. Not an introvert but not too loud as well. That is the way I have known her. But, suddenly I don’t know how and what happened she decided to change her self. She is not the same any more. And I fail to understand the reason. Someone who is beautiful and sweet. Someone who is appreciated for whatever she is suddenly turns into a ‘hep’ ‘gal’ who addresses all friends as ‘babes’ is strange.

Are You Being Fake?

I mean for people who meet  her now she might be like that but, for us her childhood friends it’s not good. Alcohol, smoking is not the point. The point is ‘faking’. For what? To be cool? I don’t think that by especially adapting this lifestyle that you are not can make you look cool.

Attitude is something that comes from within not that you adapt from the society. Being a fashion diva is good but, a fashion diva who does not understand herself is weird. We talked to her about this today to an extend that  we  asked her why she is turning into a wannabe?

A person who intentionally changes himself/herself to feel cool and hot and sexy is not doing justice with ones own self. Thinking too much of yourself is not good but neither is underestimating the beauty God has given you. I think that is what she is doing.

Turning into a wannabe. Attitude is good but to your own friends hurts them alot. Don’t do that to yourself sweetheart you’ll ruin the beauty of innocence.

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